I am writing this to let you know that I am happy , healthy and living a great life with my kid and boyfriend. You may have heard otherwise. That is unfortunate. I am finally living life as an independent adult, shaping my world though the lens of my priorities. I am living without guilt. I am living without self-loathing. I am living without un-constructive, excessive criticism. I have spent too much of my life drenched in these things- I am not going to waste another minute with them. I am only 30, there is so much life yet to be lived!